An unforgettable experience of my life Sanmesh M. Kalyanpur, National Bravery Awardee 2005

 

One foot on the New Delhi railway station's platform, the other still on the Rajdhani Express, I was visualizing about what will be in store for me in the capital city of India. I was alighting from the train to accept the National Bravery Award announced for the year 2005 by the Indian Council for Child Welfare (ICCW). I was dreaming of myself sitting on an elephant and waving to the President of India at the Republic Day parade. Suddenly the unpleasant odour of the red robed, curly moustached coolies who brushed past me, left me gasping. The assortment of hair oil scents left me confused.

I arrived in Delhi at 10:20 am on 17th January 2006 as a ‘State Guestwith my father as an escort. We went straight to the ICCW office located at Deen Dayal Upadhyay Marg where they had made our stay arrangements.

Day One was spent in getting to know each other. After lunch a small meeting was arranged where the children and their escorts were asked to introduce themselves with the children narrating their bravery deeds. We were then informed about the Do’s and Don’ts and the agenda till 26th January 2006. The entire country was well represented. North was represented by a boy from Uttaranchal, North East by children from Meghalaya, Manipur & Nagaland, East by children from Orissa and Andhra, West by two children from Maharashtra, South by Kerala and Central India by children from Madhya Pradesh and Chhattisgarh. Apart from these children there was a post-humous award for a child from Kerala who was represented by his father.

We were informed that there would be lot of gifts in store for us from Corporate Houses as well as Dignitaries that we would be visiting. We were asked to report early next day at 6.00 a.m. to participate in the rehearsal for the Republic Day parade. The very thought of getting up at 5 a.m. in the chilly weather of Delhi sent shivers down my back. We were warned not to move out of the campus without permission from the authorities. I queried whether we could have access to the internet so that I could chat with my friends from Mumbai. The answer was a straight “No”. I was also told there are no Cybercafe’s in the vicinity. I realized I was totally cut off from my friends. I started wondering whether I was a Sarkari Mehmaam in the true sense and landing up in a place under literal House arrest.

 

However the subsequent events made the trip the most memorable experience of my life.

 

The first gift that the children received was from The Shamrao Vithal Co-operative Bank Ltd. which had given the children a Dairy for their daily notings, a pen and a wrist watch. This was the onset of the gift shower which continued till 25th Jan 2006. That day we were provided with two sets of white shirt and white trousers, a red blazer with the logo, red-coloured pullover and a pair of black shoes which we were supposed to wear to all VIP visits and functions. As a result of this, all that I had carried in my suit case including the two formal suits in different colours so lovingly purchased by my parents in Mumbai especially for the visit had to remain confined to the suitcase.

 

18th Jan early morning we were taken to Vijay Chowk for the first rehearsal of the parade. I befriended soldiers from Army and Airforce. Our elephant was mischievous. At the second rehearsal it started jumping mid-way through the rehearsal. Everyone felt we would all fall down from the elephant’s back.

 

Afternoon there was a Press Conference which was attended by over 100 press representatives. We were surrounded by cameras each one asking us to pose for them. Most of the children from rural places knew only their mother tongue and were unable to communicate with the press. Being the only one fluent in both English and Hindi I was soon the most sought-for person. I was a bit tired repeating the same story to all the reporters and news channels but there was no alternative. CNN-IBN channel reporter requested me to join them in their studio located at Noida later in the night for a live interview in their programme India-360 which was to be telecast that night.

 

 

After the Press conference we were taken to Red Fort where we witnessed the ‘Sound & Light’ show. The CNN-IBN reporters were waiting at the gate for me to take me to their studio. It was a nice experience sitting in the studio and appearing live on the channel being beamed throughout the country. I met their Editor-in-Chief Mr. Rajdeep Sardesai who introduced himself as an ‘ex-Xavierite’. 

Next day morning my father got up early and came back with a huge pile of newspapers with my photograph prominently displayed in most of them. This day was supposed to be a ‘Time-Pass’ day for us exclusively meant for enjoyment. After breakfast we went to the ‘Fun-n-Food Village’ located at Gurgaon. This place is famous for their amusement rides, water rides and snow rides much similar to Esselworld in Mumbai. We were their Special Guests for the day and there were regular announcements welcoming us to the park. We took almost all the rides. I was most impressed with the Snow World which is India’s first and largest Indoor Ice skating measuring 2500 sq mtrs. I enjoyed the climb on the ice mountain and the snow sledging. The press people were here too and some of the cameramen followed us everywhere we went.

After lunch we left for The Indira Gandhi Children's Holiday Home which is located at a picturesque spot near Damdama Lake in Haryana. The Holiday Home provides training facilities for adventure sports. I thoroughly enjoyed the Burma Bridge, Monkey crawl, Tarzan swing rock climbing, rappelling, traversing and river crossing.    

All the VIP visits started from 20th Jan. Morning we had to take part in the Parade rehearsal. After lunch we left for the Delhi Secretariat to attend a reception hosted in our honour by the Delhi Chief Minister Smt. Shiela Dikshit. She was very friendly and praised each one of us for our deeds.

From here we immediately left for the South Block to attend the reception hosted by the Defence Minister Shri Pranab Mukherjee.

On our return we found the Doordarshan and NDTV crew members waiting at the ICCW office to take our interview.

Saturday, 21st Jan. after the Parade rehearsal and lunch we left for the Raj Niwas to attend a reception hosted in our honour by the Lt. Governor of Delhi Shri B.N.Joshi. After the reception, we went to see the Akshardham temple.

 

The magnificent Akshardham Temple in Delhi has been constructed under the patronage of the Bochasanvasi Aksharpurushottam Swaminarayan Sanstha (BAPS) and was inaugurated on November 7, 2005. The temple is indeed a great monument depicting the amazing world of Indian culture ornate with 20,000 statues, floral motifs, arches and exquisitely carved pillars.

The Akshardham temple complex has been built on the banks of the serene River Yamuna and lies over a sprawling 100 acres of lush manicured lawns adorned with water fountains and carved pavilions.

An IMAX theatre, a Swaminarayan temple and an elaborate musical fountain accessorize the massive Akshardham temple complex.

The main monument at the Akshardham temple is about 141-foot high and houses a lovely statue of Lord Swaminarayan.

We toured the theme halls exhibiting tableaux depicting legends and stories that glorify non-violence and vegetarianism.

We returned to ICCW to find Anand Kumtakarmam and his daughter Vidya waiting for us to take us to a reception hosted by the Saraswats from Delhi and nearby places at the residence of Mrs. Gita Kudesia, President of the Delhi Local Sabha. We reached Gitapacchi’s place to find her house filled with children and their parents eagerly waiting to receive me. Since our arrival in Delhi Parathas, Samosa’s, Chole Bhatura and Paneer had been our staple diet and I was bored eating the same food daily for breakfast to dinner. After a long time I could taste homely amchi food and I relished the tasty food and interacted with the friendly Saraswats.

They were unanimous in mentioning that this Republic Day they would feel very proud to see a bhanap sitting on the elephant in the Republic Day parade for the first time since independence. I am grateful to Gitapacchi and other families of Delhi for their hospitality.  

On Sunday 22nd Jan. we visited the Nehru Planetarium in the morning which was followed by a reception hosted by State Bank of Patiala at a nearby auditorium. The Managing Director of the Bank had specially flown from Mumbai to attend the function. Thereafter we visited The SOS Hermann Gmeiner School at Faridabad. When we reached the school we were greeted by the school band. We entered the auditorium to find it jam packed with the school children. Air Chief Marshal O. P. Mehra (Retd.) and a former Governor of Maharashtra was the Chief Guest for the function. The Founder of the SOS movement in India Padmashri J.N.Kaul informed us about the activities of the institution and how they take care of the orphan children. I was touched by the manner in which the SOS villages are run in different parts of the country. When the Bravery award was announced in November 2005, I had told my father that I would like to donate a part of the prize money for the education of orphans. When I saw the good work being carried out by the institution I immediately decided to donate 25% of the prize money that I will be getting from the Government to this worthy institution.

No sooner that the function was over I was gheraoed by the children requesting me for an autograph. I felt very embarrassed to see myself at the other side signing the autograph books. 

While returning to ICCW, I started recollecting my experiences of the first week in Delhi. I thought : On the streets, the traffic is indisciplined, the fumes choke you, the horns deafen you. And yet, the wide beautiful tree-lined roads, the roundabouts ablaze with the color of seasonal flowers, history rubbing shoulders with modernity...suddenly, it seemed that I had started liking the Delhi for its climate and friendly people despite the pollution and traffic.

The next morning we had a full dress rehearsal of the parade. On our return we went to the Delhi Council for Child Welfare (DCCW) where a reception was hosted by them in our honour followed by lunch. From there we attended a reception at the Gandhi Smriti Samiti at Tees January Marg at the place where Gandhiji was shot dead. A ‘Meet the Children’ programme was organized by the Samiti. Children from 3 schools of Delhi were in the audience and asked us questions relating to our experiences and aim in life.

From Tees January Marg we were taken to an auditorium near ICCW office to attend a reception hosted by Canara Bank. At each of these receptions we were given gifts by the organizers. We returned to ICCW campus for a campfire. All the children danced till late night around the campfire.